tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post848879385673374829..comments2024-01-13T10:34:55.490-06:00Comments on Legal Pub: Alimony Laws Need To Keep An Ex In The Life Style She Has Become Accustom To! ~by HelenLegal Pubhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03464130635305514783noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-82650292464542470052016-09-19T20:13:34.383-05:002016-09-19T20:13:34.383-05:00Helen is a dude....Helen is a dude....Mobicilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04208240460601095332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-35466852035913813452016-09-19T20:13:06.090-05:002016-09-19T20:13:06.090-05:00George Washington up-married into wealth by marryi...George Washington up-married into wealth by marrying a wealthy widowed wife," Martha Dandridge Custis." Widowed at 25, she had four children with her first husband Daniel Parke Custis. Two of her children by Custis survived to young adulthood. She brought great wealth to her marriage to Washington, which enabled him to buy land and many slaves to add to his personal estate.... So men, if you play the traditional "Dick-Dummy role(Unaware-Gentlemanly-Idiot)You will get what you have coming to you through being an idiot. Reverse the roles and play the "I always have bad luck"-role,...Remember, a women's strength, is her false portrayal of weakness....and....a mans weakness, is his false portrayal of strength....Mobicilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04208240460601095332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-34575760332924512432012-07-13T06:51:54.646-05:002012-07-13T06:51:54.646-05:00Gotta luv that Helen 's consistency!Gotta luv that Helen 's consistency!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-17069719808155550392012-07-11T22:55:42.128-05:002012-07-11T22:55:42.128-05:00Quit whining. Just because this gal took advantag...Quit whining. Just because this gal took advantage of her right to be compensated and you didn't just illustrates her superiority. Furthermore, your resentment and jealousy of the queen be is very transparent. Let's face it. All men are flawed. Just make sure you choose one with enough assets that you can make him pay through the nose when he gets caught. The fact you didn't choose wisely is no reason to hate those who do!<br /><br />Put out your flames and stop fuming. Follow old helen's advice and have better luck next time when you see the light and follow the upgrade your spouse program.<br /><br />HelenHelennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-25540962094835511502012-07-11T13:31:36.426-05:002012-07-11T13:31:36.426-05:00Wow, you pretty much have me fuming. I married a m...Wow, you pretty much have me fuming. I married a man who was emotionally abused for 25 yrs, by his ex-wife - who is a diagnosed 'borderline personality'. We lost our business and deal with her pathological lying to everyone about her medical conditions, not to mention the many times my husband paid for her rehab treatments. She kept him from having a free-ride admission to law school, hurt all of his companies & still gets alimony. We are always broke, paying her & for his bankrupcy (from building homes during the fall of the recession) & it would appear that you support this alimony abuse, so he can never 'have a life' He stayed married so he could raise the kids, be their sports coach on all their teams and pay for the way his ex burned through money. We have paid alimony for 8 yrs and are refiling because legally, we don't make enough to pay her & never did. Since my last husband was unfaithful to me & I dealt with that, I married a good guy this time.....Now, are you going to penalize him for staying with this woman to save his kids from her by imposing on-going alimony?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-4110314614658934282012-05-15T07:43:56.347-05:002012-05-15T07:43:56.347-05:00Don't hate on the messenger. Truth is an absol...Don't hate on the messenger. Truth is an absolute defense. A judge can be a gal's best friend! <br /><br />Ladies, upwards and onwards!Helennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-50990311670001142702012-01-17T14:27:55.229-06:002012-01-17T14:27:55.229-06:00Helen: You need a reality check you man hating b@...Helen: You need a reality check you man hating b@tch.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-59178054347416266122011-07-25T13:53:23.969-05:002011-07-25T13:53:23.969-05:00This is still one of the best articles on the subj...This is still one of the best articles on the subject! Girl power!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-42421179019580346302011-04-17T08:08:17.655-05:002011-04-17T08:08:17.655-05:00Gals, start walking. Just make sure you bring all...Gals, start walking. Just make sure you bring all the joint accounts with you. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-72768034097762466322011-04-12T06:43:24.574-05:002011-04-12T06:43:24.574-05:00I think you'll want to put a facebook icon to ...I think you'll want to put a facebook icon to your blog. I just bookmarked the site, although I must do it by hand. Just my suggestion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-84541004546544977912011-03-28T13:17:35.357-05:002011-03-28T13:17:35.357-05:00Girls need to get back on the street after a divor...Girls need to get back on the street after a divorce and support themselves!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-27676508032531293402011-01-27T10:30:19.908-06:002011-01-27T10:30:19.908-06:00To the spammers who continue to get deleted. If y...To the spammers who continue to get deleted. If you want to purchase a link or add a website, you must get preapproval. <br /><br />contact legalpub@legalpub.net to purchase a link.Legal Pubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03464130635305514783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-57529776726802464682011-01-11T15:28:53.515-06:002011-01-11T15:28:53.515-06:00Helen, I just threw up...Helen, I just threw up...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-86409694694347628022010-12-17T07:34:00.071-06:002010-12-17T07:34:00.071-06:00Why so bitter ANON? If the system allows free mone...Why so bitter ANON? If the system allows free money, any women would be a fool not to accept the cash. Come on, if there was a line handing out $1000 bill, would you not be willing to wait a few minutes for the payday.<br /><br />Fact is, in some states, a woman can marry more money in five minutes then she could earn in a life time of working hard labor.<br /><br />Don't hate women, hate the system. And hate all you want, just so you keep them checks coming!Helennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-63613125686044463602010-12-17T06:44:23.889-06:002010-12-17T06:44:23.889-06:00Helen....you ain't no woman. Your a monster. M...Helen....you ain't no woman. Your a monster. Men are people too just like you. It's the nice "stand up" guys that get exploited by selfish people like you. In my case, since I have custody, my ex is enjoying a lavish lifestyle while the kids and I all suffer. This is simply not morally right. I work hard and ern my living. I don't leach off of another human and steal from my offspring.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-31633980001467340492010-04-30T12:24:40.388-05:002010-04-30T12:24:40.388-05:00It's all about expectations. A gal can expect...It's all about expectations. A gal can expect if a guy rescues her, she can continue to be assured that she is safe (rescued)financially even after the scum bag male runs off for greener pastures. Alimony is part of our social welfare program. There is no reason to make the system public when it does so well in the private sector with the current alimony laws. <br /><br />MMy only beef is that alimony payments ought to be required in all 50 states.<br /><br />~Helen~Helennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-67280061217402479252010-04-30T12:02:54.090-05:002010-04-30T12:02:54.090-05:00Why Honey, doesn't a strong handsome man like ...Why Honey, doesn't a strong handsome man like you want to rescue us damsels in distress? Alimony payments are evidence of male knights in shining armor's valor in rescuing us poor females.<br /><br />So GUYS, unless the law changes, pay up and quit whining like spoiled little b!tches.Helennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-14214801408185686232010-04-30T07:05:57.834-05:002010-04-30T07:05:57.834-05:00And your point? Marriage is on the decline. Good...And your point? Marriage is on the decline. Good! It is an archaic system that should not involve the government. Leave the concept of marriage to the church. No need for legal sanction of property rights or income redistribution through alimony. Boycott marriage period!Bradnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-2056104408844303282010-04-29T17:29:12.210-05:002010-04-29T17:29:12.210-05:00Woman like Helen are the reason why the marriage r...Woman like Helen are the reason why the marriage rate is dropping hard, and many young woman are going to grow old without the prospects of marriage. What guy whats to sign up or a lifetime of alimony payments ? None. Now states like Massachusetts are poised to pass new legislation which will change lifetime alimony law, so its fair and just to both parties, so that a spouse can re-enter the work force and be a productive member of society. We have enough lazy deadbeats like Helen and her ilk, that are freeloaders looking for a free ride on the shoulders of a hard working person. Now, in 2010, manimony is rising, where woman are paying men alimony, and its increasing greatly. Time for equal rights to hit home, and the woman are not liking it. For more details go to http://www.massalimonyreform.org for lots of details and info.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-36617090822875195282010-04-21T08:38:33.511-05:002010-04-21T08:38:33.511-05:00Whats a lifetime payment to an ex between friends....Whats a lifetime payment to an ex between friends... LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-55116393417550683482010-04-13T10:12:07.935-05:002010-04-13T10:12:07.935-05:00Get over it gentlemen!Get over it gentlemen!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-87065050172356681182010-03-04T10:49:10.570-06:002010-03-04T10:49:10.570-06:00Helen says what a whole heck of a lot of us gals w...Helen says what a whole heck of a lot of us gals would like to say.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-2385021420386272932010-03-02T14:05:06.858-06:002010-03-02T14:05:06.858-06:00Helen!
I think you are great. No where do you sa...Helen! <br /><br />I think you are great. No where do you say don't have a career or don't get an education. Your message is simply, girls be smart when selecting a mate!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-72401060665173130382010-03-02T13:57:50.852-06:002010-03-02T13:57:50.852-06:00Scientist:
So you will soon be a Ph.D.? In the wo...Scientist:<br /><br />So you will soon be a Ph.D.? In the words of Shania Twain, "So you're a rocket scientist, that don't impress me much." (Now if you show me your financial statement and a heavy bank roll, that might be different.) <br /><br />Since you are only a male PhD. student, let me simplify it for you. Stephen Jenkins, director of the Institute for Social & Economic Research, concludes that five years post divorce, men were 25% richer, whereas women have less money than they did pre-split. He also concludes that 31% of mothers receive no payment for children.<br /><br />To go further, Michelle Wiener Davis quotes statistics in her book, "Divorce Busting" that would indicate way too many women live at or below the poverty level after divorce.<br /><br />THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE AND NEEDS TO CHANGE! My grandma's advice that it is just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor man is designed to remedy this situation. I advocate simply the following; First step, do a better job in selection of a mate. No one can predict with certainty when the male will stray from monogamy pursuant to his biological urge to spread his seed. But if you select a rich mate, at least you will not be in poverty post divorce. (In my experience, it is generally predictable when a woman will cheat. It is typically when a man fails to satisfy her emotional needs. Unfortunately, that is happening at an alarming rate.) <br /><br />Second, stricter uniform alimony laws. A gal is entitled to be kept in the financial lifestyle she would have otherwise enjoyed had there not been a divorce. This is not radical, many states have similar laws. Alimony ought to be paid for at least 20 years and in some cases for life.<br /><br />As for my self esteem, rest assured I am fine. Thanks for your concern, but on my death bed, my children are sure to be at my side (probably smiling at the thought of their inheritance.) And if by chance my husband is not by my side, it will only be because I am a rich widow. He loves his wealth way too much to ever voluntarily split it with me. Finally, contrary to the assumption that marrying for money spawns divorce, the opposite is true. Most men work harder to keep a family unit in tact when there are financial incentives to staying married. A man facing a potential financially disastrous liquidation will take many steps to satisfy a woman's emotional needs. If a woman marries for money the first time, subsequent marriages may not be necessary. But for those of us who did not get it right the first or second time, the third time better be the charm.<br /><br />In sum, marrying for love has resulted in a divorce rate of nearly 50% and in the poverty of over 30% of divorced women. In sum, it doesn't work. Solution: give my recommendation a try. It may result in less divorce. Even if it does not, it certainly will result in less women in poverty!~Helennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5166169592714997268.post-60095069745213031412010-03-02T06:58:20.115-06:002010-03-02T06:58:20.115-06:00Helen,
I definitely don't agree with your st...Helen, <br /><br />I definitely don't agree with your stance on alimony. One reason is because you seem to be all for alimony when the divorce involves cheating men. I don't understand why you'd want to live on the money of someone's who's cheated on you. Women definitely should have more dignity than that. A divorce is a divorce. Separate and move on.<br /><br />And I agree with Anonymous above, there's a lot more to happiness than money. <br /><br />Thanks, Helen, for making us women look like dependent leeches.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com